What does it take to really be happy? Is it possible to be happy everyday? How can you tell if you are genuinely happy, or just naieve?
I have had good and bad days. I have had alot of good days sequentialy, followed by a tandem of bad days. Why do I feel unhappy during the bad days. If you were to ask me ¨What makes you happy?¨ I could give a entire list of material things and abstact experiences. But on a bad day those things still exist. I have not lost ability to DO any of those things on the list. No, usually I am unhappy because of control. Loss of control freqks ,e out. I am not a control freak, but when the few things in my life start to squirm arwry I get antsy.
So if you find yourself unhappy because of how your day is going, sit down and think about what makes you happy that YOU can control.
I have had good and bad days. I have had alot of good days sequentialy, followed by a tandem of bad days. Why do I feel unhappy during the bad days. If you were to ask me ¨What makes you happy?¨ I could give a entire list of material things and abstact experiences. But on a bad day those things still exist. I have not lost ability to DO any of those things on the list. No, usually I am unhappy because of control. Loss of control freqks ,e out. I am not a control freak, but when the few things in my life start to squirm arwry I get antsy.
So if you find yourself unhappy because of how your day is going, sit down and think about what makes you happy that YOU can control.
2 comments:
you make me happy. yet, I can't control you!
touche´
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